Once Again…???!!! – Chapter 3: the Erudition – 4

Disclaimer: The characters in this novella are purely fictional. Any resemblance to anyone living or dead is purely coincidental. 

In the dim green light of the night lamp, Kiran sat on the rocking chair placed at one corner of their bedroom.

Kiran wandered back in time. Among the many that had come to congratulate them on the wedding day was a senior colleague of Swati, Mr. Sharma. Swati introduced him as her friend, a well-wisher and guide. She mentioned that she discussed everything with him before making any decision.

She was planning to start her PhD thesis under the guidance of Mr. Sharma. Kiran shook hands with Mr. Sharma.

“Hello Mr. Sharma, very nice to meet you. Please join us for a picture.”

“Nice meeting you Kiran. It’s okay. No need for any pictures.”

Kiran did not give that comment much thought.

“Please have lunch before you leave” Kiran said

“Of course I will, thank you”

A mosquito landed on Kiran’s cheek and inserted its sharp needle to suck some blood, disturbing Kiran’s thought and bringing him back to this fateful day.

He was questioning himself; if it were this Mr. Sharma that Vicky had seen Swati with today? How could he get it confirmed? There were no pictures. They had not yet received the video that was recorded at the wedding. It would be another couple of weeks before they received the VHS copy of the video.

Then he consoled himself by saying that, it would be fine, if it were the same Mr. Sharma. Mr. Sharma was a respectable gentleman and had a family of his own. Why would he risk his reputation for a woman? Hmmm, but, why were they going to the park, hand in hand as lovers? Veerappan was caught and this has created a mess in the city. When everyone was trying to reach the safety of his or her homes, why should Swati go to the park?

Questions, questions and more unanswered questions. The more he thought the more confused he was. How was he going to broach this with Swati?

He drifted back in time…

Right after the ceremony of the bride and groom exchanging garlands in the swing the head priest was screaming over the top of his voice, so that he could be heard. There was music and chattering of family and friends around.

The priest looked at Kiran and said, “Hold her right hand with your right hand. Do not leave her hands now. You need to keep holding her hand until we go inside and start the next ritual”

Kiran tried to keep his hold on Swati’s hand, intact. While going through the maze of people, his hands slipped and he let go of Swati’s hand. Right at that time Raghavan was asking the priest about the next ritual, the tying of the nuptial knot as the auspicious time was almost there. Kiran’s ears were perked up in that detail and he forgot that he had let go of Swati’s hands.

Swati did not resist…

When they were inside at the wedding dias, the head priest commented, “I told you not to let go of her hands and that’s exactly what you have done”

Kiran bit his tongue, “Oops, sorry” and held Swati’s hand right away.

The wedding ritual continued with the tying of the nuptials followed by walking around the holy fire for 7 times (Saptapadhi) and the stepping on the grinding stone (Ammi). This is an important ritual in the Hindu wedding as this is where the bride and groom take the wedding vows, ‘till death do us part’.

Once the vows are done, Kiran was to put on the toe ring on Swati’s long toe, the toe beside the hallux. The toe ring was too tight and was not fitting Swati’s toe. Though this ring had to be worn on the long toe, he put it on the one beside that, to complete the ritual.

Ammu noticed this struggle. She was wondering as to why they had bought a smaller size of the toe ring for Swati should have been present while buying the toe ring. And, why was there an obvious struggle. She did not like it. However, she did not say anything.

It was now the ritual of seeing the star “Arundhathi”. Kiran laughed when the head priest asked them to see the star during the day. How can one see a star in the day? How foolish was that? He didn’t realize the symbolic importance of that ritual then.

Arundhathi is the wife of the sage Vashistha, one of the seven sages (Saptarshi) who are identified with the Ursa Major constellation. She is identified with the morning star and also with the star Alcor, that forms a double star with Mizar (identified as Vashista Maharishi) in the Ursa Major. Arundhati, though the wife of one of the seven seers, she is accorded the same status as the seven seers and is worshipped with them as such.

The specialty of these two stars (Alcor and Mizar or Arundhathi and Vashistha) is that they revolve around each other. The husband and wife are expected to live such a contended life revolving around each other. How was poor Kiran to know this!

The wedding was a grand occasion with every ritual followed. The lunch served was a huge feast with 15 courses. Kiran and Swati were so tired after all the rituals that they were not able to enjoy the 15-course lunch. They gobbled some lunch so that they had the energy for the next event in the afternoon, called ‘nelangu’, which was to start around 4pm.

Nelangu was the most fun filled event of the entire wedding proceedings. Kiran and Swati had to play some simple games – finding a ring hidden in a bowl of rice; the keys in a pot of water, etc. Then, it was the rolling of coconut, while there were people singing and dancing. The newly weds were also the focus of some double-entendre jokes. Kiran happily immersed himself in all these amusements.

What an exhausting but exciting day it was. Though everyone was tired after the wedding ceremonies since the previous two days, there was smile and jubilation in their face.

As the evening slowly turned to night, Kiran was getting very excited. It was his first night with Swati as man and wife. He had so many things to talk about and of course his mind also pondered about consummating his wedding with Swati.

The very thought was exciting. The dinner for everyone was served at the wedding hall. After dinner, the local family members started leaving to their homes. Finally, it was just the two families and a few friends at the wedding hall.

Oblivious to what was coming, Kiran continued to dream about that nonexistent future.

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Once Again…???!!! – Chapter 3: the Erudition – 3

Disclaimer: The characters in this novella are purely fictional. Any resemblance to anyone living or dead is purely coincidental.

SwatiKiran’s wedding had been really grand. Though both Kiran’s and Swati’s families were settled in Hyderabad for over a quarter century they wanted to follow the typical Tamil tradition in this wedding.

The festivities began with the application of henna, a couple of days prior to the wedding, at both the households.

The day before the wedding, on August 1, everyone from Kiran’s family gathered at the Wedding Hall after an early breakfast for the celebrations and various miniature ceremonies that were all a part of the wedding function. Swati’s family was already there in the wedding hall, since that morning. All ceremonies were to begin right away.

A traditional welcome was offered to Kiran’s family at the wedding hall, complete with the music (nadaswaram and melam); trays of fruits, nuts and sweets; and the most important betal leaves, nutmeg, turmeric, kumkum and chandan.

Right after the welcome, both the families indulged individually in the auspicious initiation of the bride and groom for the family life (virudham), by the individually appointed priest. Once the ceremony was completed, it was time for a sumptuous big seven-course lunch.

After lunch everyone (particularly the groom’s side of the family), took a little rest in the rooms pre-allocated. Everyone knew that the evening was going to be busier and all of them had to be on their cheerful self.

Kiran was all excited and just wanted to spend time with Swati. However, he knew that it was not appropriate at this time. Ammu, Raman and family, Tara and family all had a nap in their respective rooms. Coffee was served to their rooms by about 3:30 pm.

While the coffee was served, as the parents of the bride and the ‘host’ of this wedding, Raghavan and Kaveri came by to inquire if the arrangements were fine and if they needed anything at all. They also requested everyone to come by for the evening snacks by 4 pm so that there would be enough time for everyone to get ready for the evening.

The function in the evening was the official welcoming of the groom and family (Maapillai Azhaipu). The evening started with the groom being taken to the nearby temple in a convertible. Kiran enjoyed the ride to the temple. There were four men carrying huge lighted lanterns that walked beside the convertible. Once the main deity in the temple was worshipped, the procession back to the wedding hall began.

Kiran was in the convertible. Vicky, as the best man of this wedding, gave company to Kiran in the car. The ride back was very slow. Behind the convertible there was a convoy of men and women, lead by Tara and Geeta. They were holding all the goodies (fruits, nuts, varieties of Indian sweets, betal leaves, kumkum and chandan) that would be given to the brides’ family at the wedding hall.

Being in Hyderabad, Kiran’s friends wanted to dance for the latest Bollywood music that was played along. Music from Hum Aapke Hai Kaun and Maine Pyar Kiya blasted everyone’s ears. Arun, Vicky’s friend enjoyed being a witness to all the events of this wedding and danced in front of the convertible as if there was no tomorrow and that no one was watching him. There were fireworks and crackers all along the way.

With the song and dance, the procession took about 90 minutes to cover a small distance of under a kilometre. Everyone was involved and enjoyed the Maapillai Azhaipu.

Once inside the wedding hall, it was time for the betrothal, confirming the wedding from both sides of the family. There was no more turning around!

Then, it was the Reception. SwatiKiran’s family decided to have the reception for the family and friends on the evening prior to the wedding, so that those that could not make it for the wedding would still be able to participate. There was a turn out of about 400 for the Reception.

It was a sight of chatter and smile galore. What a joyful occasion it was! Everyone took a picture with the bride and groom. Vicky was there behind his uncle, as the best man, to assist him.

Raman and Raghavan had ensured that all guests were welcomed and guided properly – for a picture and then to the big fifteen-course dinner that was served in the buffet style. The smell of Hyderabadi Dum Biriyani, the ‘chat’ varieties that was available and the ‘double ka meeta’ with ice cream was the talk of everyone. It indeed was a big celebration.

By the time the last of the guests left the wedding hall it was past 11 pm and they all had to be up bright and early at 4 am. Kiran was very tired, but he was excited too.

The monsoon rains were tapering; there still was the occasional thunderstorm every now and then. It was the season of mosquitoes. The big and bold mosquitoes, which sucked human blood, were not bothered by any repellent. The room that Kiran and Vicky were in had a number of mosquitoes. Neither the “good night” tablet nor the “tortoise” mosquito coil had any effect on them. Kiran was trying to keep the mosquitoes away from biting him and was not able to sleep. He was not sure if it were the mosquitoes or the excitement of the following day and the many years to come, which kept him awake.

A swarm of mosquitoes landed on Kiran and started sucking his blood. Their darting needle snapped him to reality. What was Vicky saying?

Kiran was in a daze. He was not listening to Vicky anymore.

“Kiran, where are you? Are you even listening to what I’m saying?” Vicky asked.

“Hmmm?” a long pause.

“Let’s go down Kiran and have something to eat”

Kiran did not say anything. He just followed Vicky, mechanically. Ammu has had the dinner served at the dining table. The aroma of Ammu’s Sambar, potato fry and freshly deep fried pappad was all over the house. Kiran did not smell anything.

Like a robot, Kiran gobbled his food. His eyes were glazed. While serving, Ammu asked, “Are you okay Kiran?”

“Yes Amma, I’m fine”, said Kiran.

“I’m not sure. Are you still thinking about what Swati said to me?”

“Hmmm… Kind of…”. Kiran did not want to reveal what Vicky had mentioned.

“May be Swati was stressed about something. Maybe something happening in her college. That’s why she might have snapped at me. It’s okay. I would have been fine if Tara or Geeta snapped at me. So will it be with Swati too. She is my daughter and I am fine. You should not take these things seriously. Finish your dinner and see if Swati would like to have dinner”

“Okay Amma”, was the mechanical reply.

Finishing dinner Kiran washed his dinner plate and carefully placed it in the drying rack. Then he went to the bedroom to see what Swati was doing.

Swati seemed to be asleep and she did not respond to him, calling her name.

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Once Again…???!!! – Chapter 2: the Genesis – 4

Disclaimer: The characters in this novella are purely fictional. Any resemblance to anyone living or dead is purely coincidental.

Days flew by. It was finally the wedding day. The fateful August 2nd.

It was really a grand wedding. There were about six hundred people attending the wedding. Kiran’s colleagues, Swati’s colleagues, friends and relatives from both their sides were all present. The function went on well. The match seemed to be the most ideal one. They were neither too plump nor too skinny; neither too short nor too tall. And the name – Swati Kiran was just too pleasant to hear. It flowed like a song. In all ways this was really a great match.

Really marriages are made in Heaven. So thought many.

Kiran introduced Swati to all his friends and colleagues. Swati too introduced him to one and all. Mr. Sharma, Swati’s best friend was there in the marriage. He was there with his wife. He had given Swati a gift cheque for a huge amount of twenty-five thousand rupees.

Ammu was congratulated by everyone for having found a very pleasant, simple and well educated wife for her son. She was looking at her new daughter-in-law with pride gleaming in her eyes. It seemed to her that it was just a few days back that they had met. How fast the time has gone by.

As discussed Raghavan had sent Swati’s photograph the very next day, through Sunder. He had also called Raman to inform him that the date of engagement was April 25.

Ammu was certainly very happy that Kiran was getting married. With this, all her responsibilities as a mother would end. Her kids would all be settled with their own families. Now she could rest a while.

April 25.

The engagement was at 3:30pm and was to be held at Kiran’s house. They had decided that it would be only within the family. They had invited only very close friends. Geeta did not go to her work that day. She had to help Ammu with the preparation of the engagement ceremony. Ammu and Geeta prepared Idly, Sevai and Vada with Sambar and Chutney for everyone who was going to come. They also prepared Laddu’s for sweet that needed to be served. Kiran had bought a couple of big family packs of ice cream to serve everyone that noon. Vicky helped in cleaning the house and decorating it for the function.

At the appointed hour, Raghavan and family along with a few of their friends came. They had brought with them fresh new mangoes – the mango season had just started in Hyderabad.

‘Please come in. We were just waiting for you’, invited Raman.

Kiran had a glimpse of Swati from inside his room. Swati, there was a red dot on her forehead. Her long hair as usual oiled and plaited and with a string of jasmine flowers. She was not wearing heavy ornaments. A simple earring, a simple nose stud, a simple gold chain and two simple bangles on each hand, was all she had on her. She was stunningly beautiful in this simple outfit. That day she was wearing a navy blue silk saree, that had zari spots scattered everywhere, like a million stars scattered in the sky on a new moon night. Kiran remembered the great Tamil poet Subramania Bharathi and his Kannamma.

Swati was looking like the ideal modern woman as described by Bharathi – an intelligent woman with self-confidence, motivation, ambition; yet very simple and humble. He was very happy that he was getting Swati for wife. He gazed at her and he was entranced by her looks.

The priest who was to solemnize the betrothal arrived.

‘Kiran, the priest has come. Are you ready? Shall we start the ceremony?’ Geeta asked.

‘Manni, I am just coming’, replied Kiran.

Kiran and Swati sat opposite each other. The priest uttered the mantras and finally asked Kiran and Swati to exchange their rings. Raman on behalf their deceased father accepted the tray of fruits from Raghavan as a token of acceptance of the engagement. Swati was given a silk saree and a ring, by her soon-to-be in-laws. The date for the marriage was fixed. The Second of August… The priest and all elders consecrated the couple. Pictures were taken.

After this ceremony, hot snacks, prepared by Ammu and Geeta were served. There was jubilance everywhere in the house. Everyone was happy and were enjoying the conversation. At around 8pm Raghavan and family left for their home, though Geeta was insisting that they should have dinner with them. Vikky too was there and he enjoyed the engagement of his favourite uncle.

Vicky was not comfortable about one thing. He noticed that the ebullience found in his uncle’s face was not seen in the face of his new aunt. Was this his imagination? Vikky did not tell this to anyone.

Kiran visited Swati’s house a number of times from then on. He was not able to meet or talk to Swati in most of the occasions. He used to have long chats with Sunder, Raghavan and Kaveri. He liked them all a lot. It never once occurred to him as to why Swati was returning home late most of the days.

One of those days, he had planned to go out with Swati to the then popular Hindi movie, Deewana (Crazy), one evening. He thought it was the best blockbuster romantic movie to be enjoyed with his fiancée (for he himself was crazily in love with Swati). In fact he had booked the tickets in advance. At the last minute, their date was cancelled, as Swati was not feeling well that day. She had a splitting headache.

Days just flew by… And today was August 2nd, the wedding day.

END of Chapter 2
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